21st July 2010, 17th month we've been together. Which is equivalent to 1 year and 5 months. I thought, been in a year plus in relationship is quite old, but he proved me wrong. My conversation with him last night made me realize, it's very young and fresh age. He said, kalau nak diibaratkan mcm baby, setahun lebih tu masih kecil lagi, baru pandai berjalan, berlari. yet, its a lot to learn. its a lot to digest.
'Relation-ship' is a relation between 2 hearts that sail together in the sea, like a ship, where at times u got storms, wild water current as ur tests in the relationship. If u successfully landed, means u r succeed in ur relationship.
The duration of relationship is the time when ur heart attaches with him, now and hereafter. As it for me, relationship is a life long promise. That's why if u want to be with ur partner now and hereafter, 1 and half year is so fresh, so new. Even 2 years, 3 years, 5, 10, 20, 50 years, it's still new and fresh. How can u compare 50 years with million years or eternity? It seems like 50 years is so new right? Many people think, when they are already 50 years in rship, that's quite old, 50 years. It looks like it, but if ur aim wanna be together in jannah, 50 years is not comparable.
After all, it depends on ur nawaitu, why u want to be in relationship.
Again, Happy 17th month anniversary =)
p/s: err..sorry if my arguments are quite hard to understand. I dunno how to explain what I thought clearly in words though :S